I don't know about you, but here are a few things I have been learning since I got married.

1. I need to treat my spouse with care, respect and love. More than what I would give to anyone else.

2. I am really selfish.

3. Don't ignore issues but also don't take it so seriously that they are a 100 pound weight about the neck weighing me down.

4. If talking keeps escallating to arguing and hurt feelings, WRITE IT DOWN and discuss it that way. IT WORKS.